Friday, August 8, 2008

A Rose By Any Other Name

I have always known what I was going to name my daughter. That is, until there was a real possibility that I might have one. For reasons that I can't seem to fathom, I can't make myself settle on a name for a girl. DH is more than happy with some of the suggestions I have thrown out, but just when I start to think we have settled on one, I start to second-guessing.

Strangely enough, DH and I could never agree on a boy name before I was actually pregnant, but now I am totally sold on the boy name we have chosen.

I never realized before how huge the responsibility it is to pick a name for someone else to have for the rest of his or her life. I don't want to add to the inevitable years of therapy by saddling the child with a name that makes life more difficult.

3 comments:

HereWeGoAJen said...

Just make sure it is a name that is easy to spell. I cannot say my maiden name (which was my last name and not valid to this conversation but it is just an example) without spelling it out loud.

Barb said...

It is a bit responsibility! I love names. I even hem and haw like that over animal names. When I was little, I used to do the same with my stuffed animals... crazy kid, that's me. :)

Rebecca said...

In teaching 8th grade for the past 5 years, every name that came up brought up memories of some weird/bad/delinquent/nutso child that I have taught...it was rough. I wish you luck on this journey and inevitably someone will always say something stupid...you'll get it right!